She took down the post last night but I’m going to try and send her a final message to drive the point home that her bullying is unacceptable and to make sure she won’t do it again. It’s high time bad people are called out and learn a lesson.
Just so I’m being totally transparent about this, here’s what I sent:
Is it perhaps a little too strong? Maybe. But she can’t get away with this.
I’m sorry for what I’m about to discuss (as I try to keep my blogs free of negativity and discourse) but I’m being harassed and slandered, and I want to make sure nobody else falls into the same trap.
@huxismyman has been saying that I’m rude and abusive. Please ask anyone besides them and you’ll get a different answer. Due to our friendship not being good for my mental health for a variety of reasons, I discussed with her many months ago that I didn’t want to keep being friends. (For her privacy, I won’t be discussing what reasons I have for breaking it off.)
There has been silence since then until I accidentally reblogged from her a few days ago, and she sends me a “hi” via DMs. So as not to be rude, I reply to check in on her general emotional health while still making it clear that we are no longer friends. She sends another “hi” the next day, which I decide to ignore because I know that I’m not very strongwilled and can easily be coaxed into a toxic friendship again (that’s experience speaking, sadly.) Another day passes. Then she starts the harassment.
All of these came in within the span of a few minutes while I was on my lunch break at work. I figured this couldn’t be anything good, so I blocked her. This was yesterday.
On to today:
She even sent me horrible messages to my instagram through one of hers, domhnallgleeson.ig.
I feel physically sick but mostly I’m afraid someone else will become her friend and have to go through the same trouble when they realize she is a toxic person. Please, don’t risk interacting with her. Just block and report.
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Regardless of what ends up happening, (or if I get kicked out today, tomorrow, a year from now, etc) I’m sincerely grateful to everyone who’s been so kind and supportive of me. It’s easy to get scared and feel hopeless when you look around and the world seems cruel and full of violence, but I’m convinced there’s goodness everywhere if you take the time to look.
For now, I’ll count my blessings and share the love that has been given to me while I try to stay home as long as possible.
Thank you to all my friends and followers! I’ll never forget that you’re on my side, as I am on yours ❤
Regardless of what ends up happening, (or if I get kicked out today, tomorrow, a year from now, etc) I’m sincerely grateful to everyone who’s been so kind and supportive of me. It’s easy to get scared and feel hopeless when you look around and the world seems cruel and full of violence, but I’m convinced there’s goodness everywhere if you take the time to look.
For now, I’ll count my blessings and share the love that has been given to me while I try to stay home as long as possible.
Thank you to all my friends and followers! I’ll never forget that you’re on my side, as I am on yours ❤
Update: I spent all day out of my house so I evaded most of the tension, and I think I managed to buy myself some more time by lessening my mom’s suspicion with some quick thinking. I’m not out of the danger zone just yet, but at the very least I’m still not homeless.
Techie loves taking baths. This stems from the fact that MaMa and her gang kept him locked up in a server room with little more than his equipment, a stove, and a bed and didn’t let him bathe often.
Matt finds out about his boyfriend’s love of baths and goes to Space Lush to get him some bath bombs and bubble bars. They end up taking baths together.
Oh my god I bet he loves the bath bombs with glitter and bright colors!
After space lush they go to Bed, Bath and Beyond the Galaxy. Followed by Jakku Candles, and lets not forget they stop to eat at wampa burger King.
Does sugar momma Foxglove need to get a fancy bathhouse? XD
[I’d say water bothers his eyes too much for lush showers to be a thing at first, but once he figures out a way to bypass that… Techie gets hooked on showers and baths! He loves to feel clean for once.]
I have the horrible feeling that I won’t be able to stay at home for much longer. My mom is getting suspicious of my sexuality, and she’s even told me that she’s worried I might be a lesbian. She says I’m “acting weird”… I’m really scared 😭
Due to my situation at home, replies might become sporadic and unpredictable. I’ll do my best not to become inactive, but once my mom finds out? I have no idea what’ll happen.
TechieHux 